This is a question that was posed to me at the end of 2017. When I thought about it, I have decided to make it my focus starting in 2018.
I never really thought of this question before. Sure I want to be a good wife, mom, friend…but I actually think this question is deeper and bigger. Did you ever think about this? What would your answer be?
In today’s world, I believe “successful” is probably a top answer on many people’s list. Everyone seems to thrive on success. It could be the financial glamour or the personal recognition or maybe a bit of both. But is this what you want to really be remembered for?
Once upon a time, “success” drove me. The financial and personal satisfaction were addictive. I loved being known as an “expert” and sought after by others for advice. In hindsight, the “me-centered” lifestyle I created… all in the name of helping kids …actually was not really “me-healthy”. This success I craved was slowly creating a “me-centered” world…though at the time I would argue that point with anyone.
The unseen or unacknowledged consequences centered around neglected relationships….of friends, family, and actually with God. Time lost with those I swore were important to me. Time that could not be regained.
Flash forward to now. Maybe age, life, and experience have given me a different look of what I want…I don’t know. However, here is my goal…
Someday
I
Hope
To
Be
Remembered
For
My
Spirituality shining with kindness, faith, hope, compassion, and love:)
A tall order? Maybe. What about being a good wife, mom, friend? Well, I think all that will be covered:)
Now it is your turn. Think about how you want to be remembered and strive everyday to reach your goal.
” Let no one ever come to you without coming away better and happier.”~Mother Teresa
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