What do I want to be known or remembered for?

This is a question that was posed to me at the end of 2017.  When I thought about it, I have decided to make it my focus starting in 2018.

I never really thought of this question before.  Sure I want to be a good wife, mom, friend…but I actually think this question is deeper and bigger.  Did you ever think about this?  What would your answer be?

In today’s world, I believe “successful” is probably a top answer on many people’s list. Everyone seems to thrive on success.  It could be the financial glamour or the personal recognition or maybe a bit of both.  But is this what you want to really be remembered for?

Once upon a time, “success” drove me.  The financial and personal satisfaction were addictive.  I loved being known as an “expert”  and sought after by others for advice.  In hindsight, the “me-centered” lifestyle I created… all in the name of helping kids …actually was not really “me-healthy”.   This success  I craved was slowly creating a “me-centered” world…though at the time I would argue that point with anyone.

The unseen or unacknowledged consequences centered around neglected relationships….of friends, family, and actually with God.  Time lost with those I swore were important to me.  Time that could not be regained.

Flash forward to now.  Maybe age, life, and experience have given me a different look of what I want…I don’t know.  However, here is my goal…

Someday

I

Hope

To

Be

Remembered

For

My

Spirituality shining with kindness, faith, hope, compassion, and love:)

A tall order?  Maybe.  What about being a good wife, mom, friend?  Well, I think all that will be covered:)

Now it is your turn.  Think about how you want to be remembered and strive everyday to reach your goal.

 

” Let no one ever come to you without coming away better and happier.”~Mother Teresa